Judgment is defined in part as “the process of forming an opinion or evaluation by discerning and comparing”. What happens in a relationship when what we perceived to be the situation, isn’t really the situation? What if our judgement is incorrect? What happens when one partner jumps to conclusions and completely mis-reads the intent of his or her mate or the reality of the situation itself?
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** How would a marriage benefit when both parties feel they have equal leverage in decision making and tasks?
** What would it look like if both partners were offered equal opportunity to express opinions?
** What about roles and responsibility?
This is truly an eye opener for me, and I desire to understand more of what it means to respect my husband in a way that communicates love to him.
Hi Amy, I really agree with you that it is important to understand your husband and what communicates love and respect to him. Two excellent books that would help with this are ‘Love and Respect’ by Emerson Eggerichs, and “For Women Only” by Shaunti Feldhahn. You can also watch a full video with each of these authors at http://www.marriageuncensored.com. Click on ‘The show’ and then “Watch Online”. The Eggerichs show, “What most men need but lack” is on the Season 4 list about 2/3 of the way down, and the Feldhahn show is in Season 3, #328.
Iris, thanks for the referral of great resources to read. At one time I had bought Eggerichs’ book ‘Love and Respect’, but never read it through. I appreciate all the helpful information! Much blessing to you!
Iris, thank you so much for the referrals to these great resources on marriage. Much blessing to you!
thank you..this is good..it,s make me always remember to respect my husband as family leader in family..God bless
Michray
We women know how well we do when our mates love us unconditionally. But we forget that men thrive when they feel our unconditional respect. No they don’t always deserve it, but then neither do we.
my husband and i both have great respect for each other and when there are big decisions to be made we do them togater. that is not to say we don’t have disagrements because we do but we always try not to go to bed angry and it does work.
IN ALL OF THESE VIDEO’S THIS WOMEN IS ACTING OUT HER PAIN IN VERY DANGEROUS WAYS. SHE IS PUSHING HER PASSIVE HUSBAND FURTHER AND FURTHER AWAY! THE WAY THESE VIDEOS ARE SET UP IT SEEMS AS THOUGHT IT’S JUST FOR WOMEN TO LEARN FROM. BUT THE FACT THAT THIS MAN RUNS AWAY AND DOES NOT EVEN ADRESS HOW SHE TALKS TO HIM IS SO SINFUL! THE MORE HE RUNS THE LOUDER SHE BECOMES AND HE DOESNT WANT TO COME HOME TO HER AND SHE NEVER SHUTS UP! THIS IS BAD!