A unity candle is lit at some weddings as a visual reminder that that two people are now in making a life together. It is said “that two shall be come one”.
For some couples this co-mingling of lives seems to happen fairly easily. This is especially true for couples that come from very similar backgrounds. For other couples the need for individuality is strong. A desire not to “lose oneself” can become so strong that it causes issues in the relationship. How can you build a life toegether without leaving yourself in the dust?
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Some questions to ask:
** How often do you need to have boys/girls night out?
** How does it make you feel when your spouse chooses to spend time with others?
** How much togetherness should there be in a marriage?
** When does individuality cause problems in a relationship?
** What are some ways to generate individuality within a marriage but still build strength for “togetherness”?
i think everyone needs some time to theirselves even husbands and wives,the problem comes when you would rather be with others then eachother
sharonb