A little, white lie, a truth misrepresented — it doesn’t take much before you may hear your spouse say, “I’m not sure I can completely trust you.” A lack of trust is a very challenging atmosphere in any relationship. A pattern of lies undermines the whole communication process. How can you talk about anything important if you can’t quite believe what he or she says?
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**How honest should you be in a marriage?
**How do you react to the statement that “spouses have a right to know anything about each other�?
**What steps can be taken to break the habit of lying?
**What areas of life might lend to “secrets� or dishonesty?
** What would a completely trustworthy relationship look like?
** What attitudes are reflected in dishonesty?
For anyone in a marriage to come prancing in at any unrespectable hour is wrong. With all the phones around even in a bar, there is no excuse for not giving a heads up on where you are or where you’re going? To top it off,”out with some friends from work”, does not cut it. Yes! this is a(n) interrogation with the time you are walking in this house!!!
you don’t need to spend all of your time with your spouse but you should not be out all hours and noone knows where you are this does not look good
Lies in marriage not a good a thing and they indicate worse times ahead. The problem usually is that we enter into marriage and relationships with a lot of expectations and myths. When these are not fulfiled and the myths discovered, then lies begin.
Proper pre-marriage counseling and relationships advice can help. Thank you so much for the knowldge and advice you provide on this blog and in this particular post of lies,lies,lies.
Janet of Marriage counseling, relationship advice and dating tips website and blog.